Whatever additional abundant roadblocks you may need to clear before manifesting your desire, you must first overcome your fear.
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Fear, along with limiting beliefs, is the most significant roadblock to achieving our objectives.
That's why, as part of my free manifesting challenge, I made conquering fear a priority.
Not only did I get a lot of experience since I had anxiety and fear for a long time, but as an NLP coach, I learnt a lot of ways to help people conquer their anxieties.
Of course, I recommend that you participate in the Free Manifesting Challenge, not only to overcome your fear, but also to significantly increase your manifesting success.
Fear is the projection of something that hasn't happened yet and will almost certainly never happen. Unfortunately, this fear can completely paralyze us.
So, if you're serious about manifesting and want to achieve your goals faster, you must confront your fears. Or, at the very least, accept them while still taking action.
This is one of the numerous abundance blockages I can help you overcome as an NLP coach. Read my manifesting book to learn more about your obstacles.
How do you know if someone is manifesting you?
A sudden shift in behavior is one of the most telling signals that someone is manifesting you.
Taking inspired action is a vital element in manifesting, as I discussed in my 5 Step Spiritual Manifestation Method.
When someone is actively manifesting you into their life, they will take steps to make their vision a practical reality.
Talking to you, texting you, or wanting to meet up in person are examples of these acts.
Should you manifest a specific person?
In most circumstances, manifesting a specific individual is a bad idea for a variety of reasons, but the bottom conclusion is this:
This is nearly universally true in the second circumstance, where you don't know someone yet want to bring them into your life.
The first situation, on the other hand, isn't entirely risk-free. Even though you know them and get along with them, keep in mind that you don't know them as a partner or a buddy. It's happened to me a few times that I'd get along well with someone in social events, but when it came down to it, they weren't what I needed.
Here are a few compelling reasons to reconsider manifesting a specific person:
What is the 3 6 9 manifestation method?
Writing down what you want to materialize three times in the morning, six times during the day, and nine times in the evening is part of the 369 method.
This method gained traction on TikTok (of course), with videos using the hashtag “369method” accumulating over 165 million views. It's not difficult to discover people on the app who claim the approach has helped them manifest new relationships, significant sums of money, and other things.
Nikola Tesla, a renowned inventor, was the first to believe that the numbers three, six, and nine were potent numbers for manifesting in the twentieth century. “He believed these sacred numbers were the key to opening the universe,” spiritual adviser Diana Zalucky tells mbg.
Aside from the numbers, the 369 practice follows the law of attraction, which holds that we attract what we focus on.
Shauna Cummins, a hypnotist and author of Wishcraft, adds that focusing on what you want, especially on a regular basis, may help your brain “discover what it's looking for, and thus more likely to magnetize your desires into action.”
What does the Bible say about manifesting things?
Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or expect, according to the power at work within us, be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus forever and ever. Paul writes to the Ephesians in Ephesians 3:20-21.
When individuals manifest what they want, I rarely hear them thanking or praising God.
And where does it originate from if they don't believe it comes from God? If we aren't careful, we may be receiving our desires from the enemy, who is always on the lookout for our innermost desires and is ready to use them to pull us away from God. All good things come from the Lord, according to the Bible, but if we don't include Him in our plans and don't give Him recognition or glory for His blessings, we risk relying only on ourselves.
How do you give a hint to a break up?
It's exhilarating in the beginning. You can't wait to see your BF or GF, and it's wonderful to know that he or she shares your enthusiasm. Everything else might be overshadowed by the exhilaration and excitement of a new relationship.
But nothing is ever truly new. As couples grow to know one other better, things alter. Some people find themselves in a secure, close relationship. Other couples become estranged.
There are a variety of reasons why couples break up. One of them is growing apart. You may discover that your passions, ideas, values, and emotions aren't as well matched as you believed. Another is to change your mind or feelings about the other individual. Maybe you just don't like being in the same room with each other. It's possible that you disagree or don't desire the same thing. It's possible that you've formed feelings for another person. Or perhaps you've realized that you're not interested in being in a committed relationship right now.
Most people experience a breakup (or numerous breakups) at some point in their life. If you've ever gone through it, you know how difficult it can be, even if it appears to be for the best.
Why Is Breaking Up So Hard to Do?
You may have conflicting feelings about breaking up with someone if you're thinking about it. You got together for a cause, after all. As a result, it's understandable to question, “Will things get better?” “Should I give it another chance?” says the narrator. “Will I come to regret my decision?” Breaking up is a difficult decision. It's possible that you'll need some time to consider it.
Even if you are certain in your decision, breaking up requires an awkward or tough talk. The person you're breaking up with can be upset, disappointed, sad, rejected, or heartbroken as a result of your breakup. When it comes to ending a relationship, you probably want to do so in a respectful and considerate manner. You don't want to hurt the other person, yet you also don't want to be sad.
Avoid It? Or Get it Over With?
Some people try to avoid having to initiate a difficult conversation. Others have a “let's just get it over with” mentality. However, neither of these ways is the most effective. Avoiding the problem only makes it worse (and may end up hurting the other person more). And rushing into a difficult conversation without thinking it through can lead to you saying things you later regret.
It's advisable to go for something in the middle: Consider your options so you're clear on why you want to end your relationship. Then take action.
Break-up Do's and Don'ts
Every circumstance is unique. When it comes to breaking up, there is no one-size-fits-all solution. However, as you consider having that break-up talk, there are certain general “do's and don'ts” to bear in mind.
DO:
- Consider what you desire and why you desire it. Take some time to reflect on your emotions and the reasoning behind your decision. Be honest with yourself. It's fine to do what's best for you, even though the other person may suffer as a result of your decision. All you have to do now is do it with tact.
- Consider what you'll say and how you think the other person will react. Will your boyfriend or girlfriend be surprised? Sad? Mad? Hurt? Or perhaps even relieved? It can help you to be sensitive if you consider the other person's point of view and feelings. It also aids in preparation. Do you believe the person with whom you're breaking up will cry? Has he or she lost his or her cool? What are your plans for dealing with such a reaction?
- Have the best of intentions. Make it clear to the other person that he or she is important to you. Consider the traits you wish to convey to the other person, such as honesty, kindness, sensitivity, respect, and compassion.
- Be truthful, but not ruthless. Tell the other person what drew you to him or her in the first place, as well as what you admire about him or her. Then explain why you'd like to go on. “Honesty” does not imply “brutal.” Don't use the attributes of the other person to explain why something isn't working. Consider how you can be nice and kind while remaining truthful.
- Say it out loud. You've done a lot of things together. Breaking up in person shows respect (and demonstrates your positive characteristics). If you live a long distance away, consider video chatting or at the very least making a phone call. It may appear like breaking up by text or Facebook is simple. Consider how you'd feel if your boyfriend or girlfriend did something like that to you, and what your friends would say about that person's character.
- Confide in someone you trust if it helps. Talking through your feelings with a good buddy might be beneficial. However, make sure the person you confide in can keep it private until you have your break-up chat with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Ensure that your BF/GF hears it from you first, rather than from someone else. That is one of the reasons why talking to parents, older sisters or brothers, and other adults might be beneficial. They're not going to say anything or let it out by accident.
DON'T:
- Don't dodge the other person or the necessary talk. Dragging things out makes things worse for you and your BF or GF in the long term. Plus, when people procrastinate, information can leak out. You never want the person you're breaking up with to hear about it from someone else before you tell them.
- Don't jump into a difficult talk without first considering your options. You may make mistakes that you later come to regret.
- Don't be impolite. Respectfully discuss your ex (or soon-to-be ex). Keep your mouth shut and don't say anything negative about him or her. Consider how you'd react. You'd like your ex to just say good things about you after you've broken up. Plus, you never know when your ex will become a friend or if you will reignite a romance.
These “dos and don'ts” don't apply only to breakups. If someone invites you out but you're not truly interested, you can use the same techniques to politely reject them.
What to Say and How to Say It
You've decided to end your relationship. Now you only need to find a suitable time to chat and a respectful, fair, straightforward, and kind manner to talk about it. Breakups entail more than just figuring out what to say. You should also think about how you'll say it.
Here are some ideas for what you could say. Use these suggestions and tweak them to meet your needs and personality:
“I'm sure there's another girl/guy who'd love to go out with you,” or “I'm sure there's another girl/guy who'd love to go out with you.”
- Pay attention to what the other person is trying to communicate. Be patient, and don't be surprised if the other person appears irritated or dissatisfied with your words.
- Give the person some breathing room. Consider sending a kind message or having a friendly discussion to let your ex know you care about how he or she is doing.
Relationships Help Us Learn
Relationships can have distinct meaning and worth, whether they last a long time or a short period. Each connection has the potential to teach us something about ourselves, another person, and what we want and need in a potential mate. It's an opportunity for us to learn how to care for others and to experience being cared for.
A breakup can also be an opportunity to learn. It's not an easy task. It is, however, an opportunity to try your best to respect the feelings of others. As painful as it is to end a relationship, it improves our ability to be honest and kind during challenging conversations.
How do you end a relationship with someone else?
Try having an honest chat with one or both members of the partnership if you have a healthy, close relationship with them. Face-to-face communication is the best way to express your concerns. To soften the information, try the following:
- Use facts rather than views, such as the three times she had to stay at your house in the last month because she didn't feel secure with him.
- To demonstrate that you have a balanced view of the relationship, highlight both the good and the negative, being careful not to emphasis the bad more than the good.
- Use her words to communicate that this is about how she feels, not how you feel.
This will most certainly be a difficult conversation for both of you, and it may take some time to sink in. After the chat, suggest she take an internet questionnaire or seek up indications of disastrous relationships to prove your case. Keep a file with all of the texts she's sent you regarding the relationship, as well as any social media posts she's made, and provide the document as evidence. Give your friend some time to consider your issues after you've shared yours. If she still refuses to leave the guy, try a different tactic or just remain her friend despite her awful choices. The relationship will eventually fizzle out on its own if it is terrible enough.
How do you know manifestation is working?
You'll start to notice signs and synchronicities when your manifestation or something even more suited to you is close by. Repeating numbers, butterflies, rainbows, white feathers, and even things you identify with your spirit guides could be examples.
For me, witnessing 11.11 on a regular basis indicates that the cosmos is at work.
Angel numbers can be found on receipts, in my phone at that precise time, on my gas gauge, or on the clock radio.
It could be song lyrics, friends suddenly talking about what you're attempting to manifest, a television commercial, or a message coming through for you.
Because it's such a subjective experience, only you will be able to interpret the sign or synchronicity, but when these occur, the key is to catch yourself in the moment and remind yourself of the pleasant energies associated with your manifestation.
Sit for a second and enhance that energy, even if it's only for 2 seconds.
It's also a good reminder to intentionally snap out of any negative thoughts you've been having.