A soulmate is someone who is drawn to your actual spiritual essence or soul. On a spiritual level, soulmate connections are harmonious and spiritually nurturing. Your soulmate will be drawn to you because of your dazzling aura and passionate devotion to your soul mission. Your souls decided to work and play together in service to a higher spiritual aim before you were born.
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You're not really being you.
“I want someone who loves the true me,” I often hear singles say. Have you met your genuine self yet?
Allow me to introduce you to: The actual you is a one-of-a-kind expression of boundless love in human form. You're probably not living that version of yourself right now, but it's not your fault (and we'll get to that).
You're unconsciously attracting the wrong people.
Your soulmate will be drawn to you because of your genuine soul signal (a specific vibe that originates from your heart and soul and is unique to you). The problem is that layers of “not really you” energy have obscured and perverted it.
We've all been taught to be pleasant, act happy, be quiet, and keep the peace, thus nearly everyone has suppressed feelings. Throughout your life, you have been gathering feelings that you have refused to accept, feel, or express. It's possible that you've picked up fear, guilt, or grief from others and are carrying it around with you.
This wall of suppressed emotions not only blocks your soul communication, but it also broadcasts those emotions to the rest of the world. Like energy attracts like energy, according to the Law of Attraction. This could explain why you continually running into angry, depressed, or terrified people.
The subconscious mind is distorting your true soul signal.
In the first seven years of your life, your subconscious mind was formed. Our brains are in a hypnotic condition during this time, according to experts in early childhood development. Everything in our environment is downloaded without filters, including our family's ideas, attitudes, routines, and behaviors. In your subconscious, the genuine self is nowhere to be found. It's not you, and it's not there.
Your relationship program is stuck on repeat.
Your relationship program is a set of subconscious beliefs about men, women, love, power, honesty, and who you can trust that you picked up as a child. It contains your automatic defense techniques to keep you safe. It just continues repeating because it's a program. It attracts the same childhood relationship troubles, camouflaged by other faces, over and over again. It doesn't reflect the one-of-a-kind manifestation of boundless love that you are at your core.
You're not in your right mind 90 percent of the time.
According to neuroscientists, most people only use their conscious minds for 5-10% of their waking hours. This is when you are completely present in the moment and making healthy decisions. The problem is that for the other 90% of the time, your body is on autopilot while your mind is stuck in the past or future, reliving thought patterns incessantly. When the subconscious takes control, you become subject to automatic responses when your emotional buttons are pressed.
You're not in the right place.
Unless you have a penchant for drinking or your soul mission involves coffee and pastries, your partner isn't hunting for you in pubs and coffee shops. Your soulmate is whole and complete, and is making a difference in the world. What are your interests and passions? What kind of impact did you have on the world? Rather than waiting, get out there and do what makes you happy, since your soulmate shares your passion and purpose.
Your ego prefers familiarity to harmony.
Your ego prefers what is known, even if your conscious mind wants a soul-nourishing companion. Your ego is an old, obsolete software in your subconscious mind at this time in your life. It's a database of pre-programmed responses and beliefs. This isn't the real you. The job of your ego is to safeguard and retain that early identity, and it will go to great lengths to do so. Because the mind can't sense emotions, the ego in the subconscious mind doesn't care how much suffering you've had in your relationships. And pain is an unavoidable part of the routine.
Unfortunately, your lovely soul signal has been filtered and twisted. As a result, you attract ego mates who have the same subconscious concerns as you. The Soul-ution is to destroy those false layers with the force of limitless love, which is who you are at your heart. Your soulmate will find you if you let your soul shine like a beacon.
How do I spiritually attract my soulmate?
You've found your soul match. Someone with whom you are destined to share a deep love. If you haven't met this individual yet, it's likely that you want to meet him or her. Good. You certainly can. I'll show you how to do it.
You're more likely to get what you want in a relationship if you're conscious of what you want. In this way, you have control over your love life.
Here are five things you can do to get ready for the most important love of your life:
1. Have faith in love.
Do you believe you can have a relationship that nourishes, excites, and motivates you to return for more?
I sincerely hope so, because believing in love is a necessary (and unavoidable) step toward making it a reality.
You can't be in a relationship with someone you don't believe in. As a result, if you have any limiting assumptions about what is possible in love, you should challenge them as soon as possible.
If you find yourself believing that a fantastic relationship is out of your reach, remind yourself of the following: “No way! This is a misconception. I know I'm supposed to be in love with someone beautiful.”
You'll believe more and more that a great love is meant for you as you practice separating your limiting thoughts. And everything is conceivable when this occurs.
2. Recover from old hurts.
If you want to move past your wounds, you must first become acquainted with them. You can take measures to cure this aspect of yourself by learning about your setbacks, allowing a more fulfilling love to come to you.
How do you go about doing this? First and foremost, acknowledge your relationship issues. This could be a sensation of abandonment, being stuck, or not being good enough. Once you've identified the problem, you may begin to cure it by taking care of yourself in the same way that you've been injured by others.
Let me give you an illustration. If you've been rejected in previous relationships, you need to quit rejecting yourself. Accepting your feelings, being kind to yourself, and creating room for all aspects of who you are are all examples of this.
These scars will heal when you love yourself the way you want to be loved. You won't need to play them out with other people in your life once they've done so.
3. Commit to daily self-love.
People will treat you the same way they treat you. As a result, adoring yourself is the best approach to attract a spouse who adores you. Not just on the surface, but also deep within.
Take the best possible care of yourself. Love all aspects of who you are while attempting to accept each one. Allow yourself to indulge in excess and the finer things in life. Make it a point to feel good on a daily basis.
Honor yourself in the same way that you would like to be honored by a partner. This is one of the most important keys to discovering true love.
4. Have fun before your partner shows up.
If you want a good relationship, you must have a fantastic life before that person comes into your life.
People often believe that finding a partner is the key to happiness, so they put their happiness on hold in search of love. But this isn't the case!
Your life is currently taking place. The more you love it, the more appealing you become to others, and the more likely you are to enjoy your next partner when he or she comes along.
5. Be true to yourself.
You must live from your soul if you want to find your actual soul match – someone who authentically complements your soul.
Living from your soul, in my opinion, is fairly simple. It entails getting in touch with the deepest part of yourself, your real self, and committing to living your life from that point.
Everyone has a soul. It encapsulates the essence of who you are. Others who share your passion, excitement, elegance, and love will find their way to you when you live soulfully. It's tough to resist a soulful individual.
I'm ecstatic for you to begin this adventure of attracting your life's greatest love. Remember that if you believe it to be true, anything is possible.
Please tell us what you're planning to do to attract your soul mate in the comments section below. I eagerly await your response!
Can soulmates not be meant to be?
Many people misunderstand the term “soulmate,” thinking it simply means “the person you love” or “the person you're marrying.”
But the truth is that finding or meeting your soulmate is a completely different emotion and experience than simply being with someone you love, as those of you who have found or met your soulmate will attest.
Not only have you gone head over heals in love with your soulmate, but you also have this connection that you sense on an intellectual, spiritual, or emotional level. Many people find it challenging to put into words how they feel. Your soulmate, on the other hand, has your full heart and the relationship is far more intense than a normal one. This person is not just your other half, but they're also the only person who truly understands you, the one person who makes you feel at ease and as if you've known them for many lifetimes (which your soul has). You can't picture life without this person, but the saddest part is when you and your soulmate are simply not meant to be together in this life. Not yet, at least. Perhaps you will be in the future life. However, you've tried everything and the relationship is now toxic.
The heartache of saying goodbye to a soulmate is almost intolerable. It's like an ordinary breakup, but a hundred times more dramatic and emotionally destructive as if a piece of yourself dies when that person leaves your life.
After you and your soulmate discover you're not destined to be together in this incarnation, life goes on like this:
You find love again, but it'll never feel the same.
Yes, you will fall in love again, possibly marry, and go on to live a happy and fulfilled life. Even so, there will always be a sense that something is missing. You can't quite put your finger on it, but you occasionally feel a void that isn't being filled, regardless of how happy your life or new relationship is. It's a part of you that you can't get to. It's as though no matter how long it's been since you and your soulmate broke up, it never goes away. Love never feels the same the second time around. You know it deep down in your heart, whether you confess it or not.
No matter how many years go by, you still think about the memories.
It will always be tough to let go of the memories. You'll tend to replay those memories in your thoughts a lot, especially if you're going through a difficult period in your life. Your thoughts will always stray back to that spot, back to that time you were together, and back to that life you once enjoyed that no longer exists in the present, no matter how many years pass. You'll have odd flashbacks, which will sometimes appear out of nowhere. But, whether it's pleasant or horrible memories, you'll always remember them. It's the only thing you have left of them.
You become an entirely different person.
When you and your soulmate part ways, a piece of you dies. You never feel the same way twice. You change a lot about yourself, notably the way you deal with heartfelt topics like dating and love. It's as if the loss's sorrow corrupted you from the inside out, altering your life as you knew it.
The line “They will love the better you, but I still hold the ghost of you” from Sam Smith's song “Palace” is a perfect example of this. You just adopt a whole different persona, a mere phantom of yourself, and live a completely different life. However, most people prefer this version of you since you've learned and grown so much since then, and you can see things more clearly today. Even if you've gone through a lot of agony to get here, you might miss some aspects of your old self now and then.
You might question all the “bad that happened.
The issue is, if you're not with your soulmate despite trying everything you can to make it work, it's probably because things have gotten poisonous or unhealthy. The intensity of being with a soulmate can frequently lead to numerous disputes and arguments, which can quickly devolve into something unpleasant and destructive. However, as time passes and you gain more distance from all of this, you begin to notice all of it “wrong” in a new light. You begin to wonder if some of that is true “if the “bad” were all your fault, or if you might have managed things differently. You could wonder how horrible things were in the first place, or if you simply overreacted at the time.
They still appear in your dreams.
Years and years may pass, but your soulmate will continue to emerge in your dreams. It's how your subconscious mind and spirit cope with the fact that your soulmate is no longer at your side in this world. You may be completely fine with this fact in regular life, yet the agony still persists unconsciously.
You will settle into your new life, but your soul will always carry this person with you.
You'll move on, you'll have fun, you'll go on adventures, and you'll live. But, in some way, they will always be a part of you. Their presence, their memories – you'll carry them all with you in your heart and spirit. You and your soulmate will reunite in another life when everything is meant to be, and it will be magical. But in the meantime, live life to the fullest. Love with all of your heart. Take a trip around the globe. Make an effort to succeed. And strive to be the best version of yourself.
How do you know if your manifesting your soulmate?
Have you ever considered the other side of the coin and wondered how your soulmate is experiencing right now, as they wait (patiently) for you to manifest into their reality?
They're aligning with you, and you're aligning with them, and then the Law of Attraction's magic can make your energy clash in oh-so-wonderful ways.
It's critical that you allow your heart to open and be carried away by the wonder of true love.
Remember: The Universe is indeed always conspiring to hook you up with the people you have penned sacred soul contracts with.
So whether it's your soulmate, twin flame, or even just like-minded kindred spirits, the Universe is always sending you little divine winks that these unique people are on their way into your life.
These folks are most likely experiencing the same set of indications as you, indicating that they are going to welcome YOU into their genuine love path.
Are you observing the indications in order to ultimately remove the obstacles and accept the intuitive treasure map that will guide you to your beloved?
You can dissolve energetic resistance by switching the knowledge that you are responding to their appeal.
Does everyone find their soulmates?
Have you ever imagined what it might be like to finally meet your soulmate? Although not everyone believes in soulmates (which is fine! ), if you do, you might question, “How will I know when I've met the one?” The answer is that it is unique to each individual as many people who have met their soulmate can attest.
What age do you find your soulmate?
The typical woman discovers her life partner at the age of 25, while males are more likely to find their soulmate at the age of 28, with half of people finding ‘the one' in their twenties, according to the study.
They also discovered that most people waited five months to declare “I love you” for the first time, as well as update their relationship status on Facebook, and six months to be granted their own drawer at their partner's house.
When you lock eyes with your soulmate?
4) They regularly lock eyes You'll notice how deeply they look into each other's eyes while they chat. It means they are both watching and being watched by each other. They're both curious about what the other is saying and doing. When you have a deep bond with someone, you instinctively keep staring at them.
Can soulmates not end up together?
Soulmates can often go on once the lesson has been learned and the soul has been awakened. Sometimes soulmate relationships can last a lifetime, while other times they are too powerful and must be ended. Even if soulmates do not remain physically together indefinitely, their love endures.
What is a karmic soulmate?
A karmic connection is one that is designed to help us learn the things we need to learn about love and cooperation throughout this lifetime. Because it is a link of two souls, a karmic relationship might be considered a form of soulmate relationship, albeit it differs from twin flames or soulmates who are healing in nature. We'll all have one of these karmic relationships at some point in our lives. It's love that gets under your skinand forces you to evolve. However, these friendships aren't always easy to maintain.
From a spiritual standpoint, the premise underlying karmic partnerships is that the two of you agreed to aid each other on your separate paths before your souls entered this incarnation. “There are frequently unsolved difficulties from previous incarnations,” says relationship counselor Margaret Paul, Ph.D. When people are willing to learn instead of trying to dominate each other, a lot of healing can happen.”
Karmic interactions act as guides or teachers in this way. And they're usually just there for a short time. Shannon Kaiser, author of The Self-Love Experiment, explains, “They're supposed to help you grow at a soul level in often painful push-pull ways.” “However, they are usually not designed to survive a long time. This is because you've all come together in this life to clear your karma. It's frequently a rebalancing of a negative experience from a previous life.”
Where do soulmates meet?
If you're anything like me, you'll look like a clammy, wet trainwreck after every workout. The gym isn't the place to flaunt your gorgeous side, but you don't have to look like a swan all of the time if you're serious about someone. If there's a regular at the gym you'd want to meet, go up to him or her when you're ready. Not to go all schoolgirl on you, but if approaching strangers makes you anxious, bring a friend with you. You're not the only one who feels this way.
How can you tell if someone is thinking about the law of attraction?
Having vivid dreams or seeing them in your sleep is the most common sign that someone is thinking about you.
If you've had a lot of dreams about someone, it might be a casual meetup or something more serious, like randomly running into them.
If you keep experiencing dreams about this person or even run into them, you should try to contact them.