As far as I'm aware, the Universe hasn't given us a rule book that tells us when we're entitled to a raise, more money, or the relationship of our dreams. I'm pretty sure a rule book like this doesn't exist. We are the ones who decide what we deserve. No one else is doing it. So, if you want to build a glass blowing business in Costa Rica, don't sit about waiting for someone to convince you that you deserve it. I don't think we can be given such a large capacity for feeling and then told we couldn't have it. Desire is the driving force behind all we do. That is how we were created to live.
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How do I manifest my goals?
We all have ambitions and dreams! Some of your goals are lofty, while others are modest, but one thing is certain: you should pursue them all. Here are a few basic things you may take to ensure that your aspirations become reality:
Believe in yourself
We are all too often plagued with self-doubt or the belief that we aren't capable of participating in certain activities. Finally, realizing your aspirations and achieving your goals requires you to believe in yourself. Recognize that your abilities and capabilities will see you through. It's true that you've already accomplished a lot…you've overcome certain challenges in your life. Try to recognize the various possibilities that life has to offer, and understand that if you don't believe in yourself, chances are that no one else will. This necessitates a closer examination of the real you, which leads us to the next point.
Figure out what you like to do, then get better at it
It is common for people to lose sight of their dreams and goals. If you want to achieve your objectives and make your dreams a reality, you must first learn more about yourself: Who exactly are you? What do you excel at? What potential do you have within you? Knowing your talents and shortcomings is the first step. Improve what you can, and compliment yourself on your positive qualities. You will feel more safe if you have a deeper understanding of yourself. It will be easier for you to attract good things into your life. Before you can get started and go forward, you must first comprehend your current situation.
Know that your dream is possible
You must also have complete faith in your ability to achieve your objective…we're talking 100% here! Don't let any doubts creep into your head because you've established a realistic objective for yourself. Consider it carefully before you begin, pausing for meditation as needed, but remember that second-guessing yourself is unhelpful in the end. Make sure you'll be able to achieve your goals before taking action to make them a reality.
Write your dreams and goals down
It cannot be overstated: writing down what you want to work on and keeping track of your progress can be quite beneficial. It's more likely that if you write down your goals, you'll accomplish what you set out to do. Furthermore, putting down a goal encourages you to formulate your desired outcome in a specific manner, increasing your engagement with your aims. This also makes it easier to keep track of your priorities. What you're doing is sending a message to your subconscious mind to keep you moving in the right direction while increasing your level of commitment to your goal or dream. Give our Goalify Goal Sheet a try if you need some assistance with this! It's available for download here:
Stay focused
It's also critical to maintain focus while you work toward your objective. Of sure, you'll run against roadblocks while pursuing a goal. It happens to everyone. Your success is determined by how you deal with any obstacles that may come. Allowing challenges to derail you is a bad idea; instead, stay focused and keep taking steps toward your goal. Be grateful for the difficulties you face; it's from these experiences that we learn the most. In this series of interviews, well-known figures discuss how they attained their aims and offer advice on how to overcome challenges.
Change your perspective
If you run across roadblocks or begin to doubt your ability to achieve your objectives and goals, try adjusting your perspective. Going for a brief stroll, or even trekking if you like, may frequently help you relax by simply spending time in nature, taking a few deep breaths, and removing yourself from your daily routine. Looking at things from a different angle can help you come up with new answers and gain clarity in realizing your objectives and goals. If you just look for it, you can find a ray of light in every scenario. It's often just a matter of how we look at things and what we concentrate on.
Go for it!
Instead of overthinking your ideas and goals, take action. Taking action may appear to be simple, but it can be quite challenging. In certain ways, our culture fosters a lot of thought before taking action…to the point that no action is often taken. If you want to achieve your objectives, such inaction is bound to cause problems! So get moving, take that initial step, and be proud of what you've accomplished. Now you're doing everything you can to achieve your objectives and dreams!
What is the 3 6 9 manifestation method?
Writing down what you want to materialize three times in the morning, six times during the day, and nine times in the evening is part of the 369 method.
This method gained traction on TikTok (of course), with videos using the hashtag “369method” accumulating over 165 million views. It's not difficult to discover people on the app who claim the approach has helped them manifest new relationships, significant sums of money, and other things.
Nikola Tesla, a renowned inventor, was the first to believe that the numbers three, six, and nine were potent numbers for manifesting in the twentieth century. “He believed these sacred numbers were the key to opening the universe,” spiritual adviser Diana Zalucky tells mbg.
Aside from the numbers, the 369 practice follows the law of attraction, which holds that we attract what we focus on.
Shauna Cummins, a hypnotist and author of Wishcraft, adds that focusing on what you want, especially on a regular basis, may help your brain “discover what it's looking for, and thus more likely to magnetize your desires into action.”
Is it okay to manifest everyday?
Let's take a closer look at it. Continue reading to learn about three major manifesting dos and don'ts. If you follow them, you'll be able to genuinely co-create with the Universe!
Don't: Expect exactly what you want to just drop in your lap
This could be the most widely held misunderstanding. There's a popular belief that all you have to do is construct a vision board and write a thousand affirmations in your diary, and the exact item you want will materialize in front of you.
Affirmations and vision boards are beneficial because they provide clarity. I adore them both! However, we can be seduced into believing that we know best. We become emotionally invested in a specific conclusion or expect things to unfold in a precise order.
We cut off Universal guidance and move into manic manifesting when we do this.
Do: Trust that the Universe has a plan better than yours
It's not about having total control or achieving all of our short-term goals when it comes to manifesting. Getting what we believe we desire isn't really the point of true manifesting. It's all about receiving what's best for everyone.
You will have experiences when you will attract just what you desire. The idea isn't to control outcomes and get exactly what you want. Keep in mind that your plan may not always be the best one.
If all of your meditations and affirmations are focused on getting a promotion at work, for example, you may be completely blocking a far greater chance at a different company!
In this video, I discuss how, when it came to having a kid, I surrendered to a bigger purpose…
There is a bigger plan than yours. When you surrender to the skill of manifesting, you can trust that spirit will lead you in the direction of your wishes and much more.
A prayer to let go and trust
From my new book, Super Attractor, here's a short prayer to help you sacrifice your desires and exercise patience:
“Thank you, Universe and highest truth and compassion guides. I'm eager to be liberated. “I am grateful for a newfound faith.”
Say the prayer aloud and allow yourself to sink into the feelings of surrendering to faith in the Universe.
If you encounter any opposition, acknowledge it and return to this prayer. You may repeat it as many times as you like. It's a plea for assistance. You're surrendering your ideas and making room for the Universe's energy to assist you in ways you can't imagine.
Don't: Try to “make it happen
For many of us, trying to control and compel things to happen is a deeply entrenched tendency.
You may have done some amazing work to release this cycle if you're on a spiritual journey. The ego's demand for control, on the other hand, is deceptive, and we might fall back into this cycle without even realizing it.
Even if you don't consider yourself a control freak (which, to be honest, I do), we all try to exert control in some way. If you want to:
Remember that the Universe has a much better plan than we do. By following that counsel, you can stop controlling and start receiving.
Do: Practice the Spiritually Aligned Action Method
Because manifesting is a cooperation between you and the Universe, it's also known as co-creating. I teach an approach in Super Attractor that I intuitively devised and used in my own life. The Spiritually Aligned Action Method is what it's called.
When we take spiritually aligned action, we can believe that an energy greater than our own is working on our side and that all will work out in the end – even if we don't know when or how it will.
Step 1 of the Spiritually Aligned Action Method
Simply practicing step 1 is a game changer. To prepare for the entire method in Super Attractor, try this drill!
When your passion is united with service and inspiration, it becomes unstoppable.
“How do I know if my goal is backed by service and inspiration?” you might wonder.
“What if what I really want isn't to change the world?” What if I'm looking for love or trying to get out of debt? What does it mean to be of service to others?”
If your ambition fills you with genuine excitement, it's backed by inspiration! Spirit will back you up as long as you yield to the highest good for all.
You must, however, comprehend why you desire something and the energy that drives it. If you want a new career so that your family will approve of you, or if you want a relationship because you feel lonely, your desire is most likely fueled by need and fear.
Here's how to get rid of the energy that's fueling your desire: “Does this desire help me feel motivated and serve others?” ask yourself.
Write in your journal on how your desire makes you feel on the inside. Write about how your good energy and inspiration helps others. You can trust that aligning your energy with service and inspiration will move your goal forward.
Finally, allow yourself to cultivate joy, inspiration, and a strong sense of contribution. Allow yourself to rejoice about your desires!
In this video, I explain what it means to act in a spiritually aligned manner:
Don't: Save your manifesting practices for one special time and place
Many people believe that manifestation takes place exclusively in their Zen den, on their meditation pillow, with all of their crystals lined up and a candle lighted. They spend some time in that space meditating, journaling, and doing anything else they need to feel good and connect with spirit.
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Then they wake up, go about their daily lives, and abandon their spiritual activities.
You're choking off the flow of inspiration when you compartmentalize your spiritual activities like way.
We don't just get inspired on a retreat, in a yoga class, or during a religious ceremony. When we put it in a box and keep it isolated from the rest of our lives, we are doing ourselves a big disservice.
Do: Make manifesting part of your daily life
Manifestation is something we perform on a regular basis. In truth, we're always generating and attracting – it's just that we do it unconsciously most of the time.
Instead of reserving your manifesting techniques for “special” occasions, incorporate them into your daily routine.
- Commit to doing some form of meditation every morning, even if it's just sitting in silence for a few minutes and tuned in to your breath.
- And when you do enter your Zen den, remember to develop the feeling you desire!
Is manifesting a sin?
If you're trying to materialize something great, like a new home, a romance, or a new job, manifesting isn't a sin.
If you strive to generate something negative that will harm someone else, however, you are committing a sin.
Even if you aren't religious, you should never strive to generate something negative since it will “bite” you in the end.
You will always get back what you put into the world, so if you want to be a better person and have more positive things in your life, don't try to create anything negative.
What can you not manifest?
The Law of Attraction only works if your desires are in sync with your personality. You can't create something for someone who doesn't want it. You can't manifest against the wishes of others. For example, if you don't like someone, you can “command” them to do something bad (no, not even to a mean ex-boyfriend).
What does 1111 mean in manifestation?
11 is the number of manifestation in Angel Numbers, according to Doreen Virtue, therefore if you see 11:11, pay attention to your ideas since you're in high manifestation mode. Today is November 11, or 11/11, the Gateway period of the year, when a portal opens to the divine and our manifestation powers kick into high gear, according to certain mystics. So, on this day of all days, think solely about what you desire and stop worrying!
Can I manifest out loud?
You need to ask the universe for what you want once you've determined exactly what your aspirations, dreams, and goals are. This can be done in a variety of ways, including prayer, meditation, visualization, saying your intentions out, creating a vision board, and/or creating a “future box,” which is a container filled with photographs of goods you wish to manifest.
Why is manifesting bad?
Gallagher warns that manifestation can be dangerous to persons who suffer from anxiety, particularly those who have intrusive thoughts. Some of her patients, for example, believe that if they expect something awful to happen, such as a loved one being involved in an accident, they will unintentionally bring it about.
Is manifesting a person bad?
This reason is simply a more developed version of number two. However, being aware of it is just as crucial if not more so because the consequences can and will be far more serious.
If you successfully create a person who isn't suited for you, you may find yourself in a poisonous relationship from which you must immediately escape.
Toxic relationships, as many of us are aware, are never enjoyable and can even be harmful. So I wouldn't recommend “playing” with these items.
You could be astonished at how toxic they are in a relationship if you visualize a certain individual and successfully attract them into your life. People are tough to predict, even if you've known them for a long time.